Some people just wind us up. They have annoying ways. You feel frustrated and angry. They rob you of happiness. So ask yourself: What is it difficult people do? List their, no-doubt annoying, behaviours. What is it they want? To get their own way, to win, to make it happen. Do you ever just let them have what they want? Because of people’s annoying ways we sometimes resist giving them an inch. That’s a bit of a waste of time and emotion. Notice their strengths instead, persistence, determination, bravery. Tell them what you admire and get a happier outcome.
